Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! I hope Santa gave you everything you wanted this year! The only gift I wanted this year was a wine rack because I enjoy collecting wines. But, I was also fortunate to spend some time with a beautiful, sexy, and interesting woman. A friend of mine introduced us. I spent about 3 days with her and enjoyed every moment before she went back home. Already looking forward to seeing her again! She seems to be someone I can take seriously.
When I woke up this morning, the temperature in my apartment wasn’t as cold as the day before. So, I decided to turn off the heat and light a few candles. However, before lighting the new candle in my bathroom, I chose to cut a portion of aluminum foil and wrapped it around the upper portion of my candle jar. Afterward, I took the excess foil and folded it over where the flame will be. I learned this trick from watching the YouTuber, “Detailed Dream.” He did this once in a video to demonstrate an easy and safe way to avoid tunneling. Tunneling is when a candle begins to burn unevenly leaving unmelted wax on the side of the jar. It’s annoying and it makes the candle look terrible. I’m the kind of person who believes you can learn from anyone and I enjoy buying candles, so taking care of them only makes sense! That’s when it hit me . . . BOOM! I don’t know why I thought of this — but I realized that women are just like candles. Allow me to explain.
1) They Are All Different
Just like they are many different shapes and sizes of candles, women are different too! Some women are slim, thick, and plus-size. Some women have big breasts, but their ass is smaller. Some women have big asses, but their breasts are smaller. And then, there are those women who have both a big ass and big breasts — the woman I was with this Christmas fell into that category. I have always adored either one. I think it is foolish for men to only want a woman to look a certain way. It is okay to have preferences, but beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, and colors. There is NO ONE WAY for a woman to look. Women are human beings and not objects that men get to decide who are beautiful and who are not.
2) They Require Time
As I mentioned before, tunneling occurs when a candle burns in one spot while the wax around the flame is still solid. It’s very unsightly. It’s also annoying because once the candle has burned long enough the unmelted wax never catches up with the rest. This morning when I swamped candles and lit the Rosewood Fig candle in my bathroom, I knew I was going to have to use the “aluminum foil technique” to ensure that the candle burned correctly for the first time. Did I want to do it? Nope. Why not? I didn’t want to do it because I had just woken up and the technique takes about 2 to 3 minutes. Lighting the candle takes 2 to 3 seconds. However, in order to make sure the scent of the candle was maximized and to avoid that ugly tunneling look, I had to sacrifice. This same level of thinking is needed when dealing with women — good women, by the way. When a man is patient, respectful, and courteous in how he handles a woman, he is likely to get the best out of her. Being able to have situational awareness, gauge a woman’s energy, and know when to make a move are the things that cause women to feel safe and comfortable when being around men. There’s a time to ask — but there is also a time to act. On the other hand, when a man is pushy, doesn’t respect boundaries, isn’t willing to invest in building chemistry, is only concerned about what HE can get, and isn’t patient — he might get what he wants from her, but it will not be as grand as it could have been if he were patient. Take a chill pill, bruh! Be easy!
3) They Will Brighten Your Life
Lastly, a good candle is like a good woman — she can bring you peace and serenity. Whenever I am sitting on my futon or loveseat watching TV or playing my war games on my XBOX and I get a whiff of my candle, it does something to my brain. It makes me feel good. It makes choosing to stay indoors that much better. At the age of 29, there is nothing that I have yet to discover that can compare to the light and beauty a woman brings into a man’s life. Yes, money, success, and peace are invaluable. But, a woman who is mature, peaceful, loyal, and beautiful is a true gift that can never be spoofed.
